skateNsmoke said:
my mom used to let me grow plants in the house but now that my faget stepdad moved in she wont let me unless its foolproof so im allowed to do it in my home but my stepdad cant find out but thanks for the concern anyways (my stepdad dont own the house hes livin in so he dosent have any say) just need a stealthy grow so he dont find out even if he did find out my mom would stick up for me anyways and say shes allowing me to grow so no harm either way im still gonna grow plants indoor although ive never tried growing outdoors and it could be a fun experience....hmm maybe ill grow indoor and outdoor thanks for the idea
And if he got pissed off and called the cops? Your mom would go to jail.
I'd say wait it out until you can get out on your own.
That's the only fair way for your mom. It's puttin her in a hell of a spot.
Your mom loves the dude enough to marry him. Calling him a faggot is both inaccurate and unfair to your mom again.
My first impression is that you should try respecting your mothers decision to marry this guy and let him join the family.
Please don't get angry about my giving you advice. I grew up with it the other way around. It was my stepmom. She turned out to be a hell of a nice person.
If you grow weed without discussing it with him and your mom together, you're disrespecting him first.
If he says no, then live with it in the house he shares with his wife, your mother.
When you're out on your own, you're your own person and you can do what you want.
You might explain to him that you intend to smoke it either way, and it's a lot safer for you if you smoke what you grow instead of hittin the street for weed.
Hell, you might find out that he's cooler than you think, or not. If you want him to respect you, then respect him.
That's the real bottom line. YOU are living in your mom and her husbands house. They aren't living in yours.
Good luck to you man. I sincerely hope this works out good for you.