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  1. Mar 11, 2018 #1

    MetalHeader

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    we’ve been together for the last month (we’ve met on Tinder)
    I have a lot of free time due to my automated affiliate marketing incomes, and she has a lot of time as well, so we’ve been able to see each other for almost every day for at least couple of hours.
    She lives 3 blocks from me which is great as well.
    The only problem is that she doesn’t wanna have sex.
    She is claiming to be a virgin (she’s 25)
    What do you think, how can I make her want to have sex asap?
    She’s horney but always stops me at some point.
    i don’t know what to do anymore :/
    Help guys
     
  2. Mar 11, 2018 #2

    Rosebud

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    If she says no, ya gotta believe her, and why are you asking this on pot site?
     
  3. Mar 11, 2018 #3

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  4. Mar 11, 2018 #4

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    Dump her and get another girl friend.
     
  5. Mar 11, 2018 #5

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    If she is hanging on to her virginity then she has her reasons. Maybe she is old fashioned and wants to get married first. Her choice. You have to deal with it. Either you like her enough to pursue the relationship or you let her go and find someone else to fulfill your booty call needs.
     
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    tinder is for hookups not relationships. IMO, run as fast and as far as you can.
     
  8. Mar 11, 2018 #8

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    if ya want it put a ring on it,,,,,
     
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    I got a little change in my pocket going ching-a-ling-a-ling
    Wanna call you on the telephone, baby, give you a ring
    But each time we talk, I get the same old thing
    Always, "No huggee, no kissee until I get a wedding ring"
    My honey, my baby, don't put my love upon no shelf
    She said, "Don't hand me no lines and keep your hands to yourself"
     
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  12. Mar 13, 2018 #12

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    try getting her to smoke a joint with you ,,,a few glass's of wine ,,,put on some Otis redding ,,,if that don't work umbra's correct,,, run and run fast
     
  13. Mar 13, 2018 #13

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    I seriously can't believe that we are here talking about how someone can entice their young, possibly virginal girlfriend to have sex. This is disgusting. To try and push anyone who doesn't want to have sex is bad, but this is a young gal who says she is a virgin. And you have only been dating a month. Don't you have any respect whatsoever for her feelings? This whole thread just makes me feel kind of slimy...
     
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    C'mon, HG..... some guy was probably asking the same questions about you when you were a virgin..... a hundred years ago or so. LMAO.... j/k :)

    I agree that it's kind of creepy but, have fun with it. Been so long since I wondered about anything like this. LMAO


    Still, I hold to my first advice. Dump her and get a new girlfriend. Get one that's really trashy and trampy looking/acting. They are always the most fun.

    Make sure she's a screaming alcoholic. That's almost a pre-requisite for a fun date.
     
  15. Mar 14, 2018 #15

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    sorry hemp g,,,never thought of it like that ,,,,I'm a firm believer in no means no ,,,some times people just need a little push in a direction ,,,like riding a roller coaster scared at first but after your glad you did it ,,,I apologize if I offended,,,i was not telling him to get a 16 year old high school kid drunk and high to steel her virginity ,,,were talking about a 25 year old women,,,, anyway sorry zig
     
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    Well then, just roofie her ala Bill Cosby.

    Part of my problem with this is nowhere is there any mention of affection or caring for this girl. The only concern is getting in her pants. If this is all that matters, find a prostitute and leave this gal for someone who actually cares about her. I take her at her word that she is a virgin (it is not a badge of honor for someone 25 any more). There could also be a lot more to it--she could have been assaulted or traumatized at a younger age. And sorry Hackerman, there are a lot of things I think it is okay to have fun with (I am not politically correct at all), but how to entice a young women to have sex when she clearly doesn't want to is not one of them. And Ziggy, as you get older, you will realize how terribly young 25 actually is.
     
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    yes mam,,,,,
     
  18. Mar 14, 2018 #18

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    Trust me HG, coming from a man.... there is never affection at that age... only sex. LMAO

    We lie and we say we love you. And we act like we do. But in the end if it wasn't for that lust thing, we wouldn't have anything to do with you.

    All men would live in dorms with a refrigerator in EVERY room because it's totally stupid to have to leave the room to get beer.

    And, the Woman's Channel would not exist. All channels would be sports channels and all restaurants would be fast food. Why go out to dinner? That's for getting women to have sex with you.

    No, don't underestimate the importance of the role of sex and lust in humanity. I know I can speak for myself when I say it has been a MAJOR driving force in my life.

    I would have been a bum all my life if I didn't need money to impress women to get sex. I worked hard and made lots of money for one simple reason..... buy fancy cars to impress women to have sex with me. Period.

    You're a woman, girl. Trust me, if it wasn't for sex, mankind would have simply eaten all of you eons ago rather than listen to your constant bitching and whining.

    Just saying.
     
  19. Mar 15, 2018 #19

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    Whoa Hackerman that is just so wrong in so many ways.
     
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    :yeahthat:

    My face and neck still hurt from the cringe I got after reading that post. Way to dismiss an entire gender. A gender that gave birth to any man who feels like that.
    Screw beer. I need the hard stuff tonight. Everclear here I come.
     

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