My neighbor has 4 plants in his yard that are not fenced in. Today when I went out to the shed, I looked over at his plants and to my horror, they looked male. A closer look revealed that he has 4 male plants ready to drop pollen. How exactly do I talk to him about this? How do I convince him to pull all of his plants? I can offer him some, but my plants are quite small and I have 2 other people I grow for, so it would not come close to what he was expecting. Boy, one of the drawbacks to people who don't know what they are doing thinking it is okay to just throw some seeds in the ground... And what are my alternatives if he decides not to pull them?