Unfortunately my camera is down; can't get pics, but I know when the sex parts first appear they are like an extremely tiny piece of plant matter sticking out between the nodes (can't even tell the sex at this time), but over time if it cracks open and white hairs pop out it's female and if it develops into a round ball it's male. What also happens is that tiny leaves grow from the sides along w/ it, when this happens is this a sign of female or male or just something that happens to both sexes? I think I missed the time to see the white hairs or not pop out, so I'm trying to guess what it could be.