My little family and I have adjusted.
It sounds trite, but we really have been able to see the important things more clearly.
We always had dinner together, but now it's more of a family thing..the two year old loves to help cook.
We have made going to city parks and different sports a part of every weekend. SF has beautiful parks and I found out that there is even an adult kickball league..when's the last time you played kickball? The last movie that I and my 10 year old saw was The Dark Night about 6 months ago.
As a matter of fact, we don't really pay to do much these days. The first Wed of the month is free at the SF zoo...same with the Exploratoium (the big SF science museum)..the science academy has free days..we have a free passes to the Aqaurium under the Bay at Fisherman's Wharf..
I've found that just about anything we want to do can be done cheaper or even for free with a little bit of research and planning.
I learned how to budget..... I mean
really budget.
I've been on my own for a long time. Parents dead, no grandparents, aunts or uncles to speak of so you'd think I would've learned better money management skills before now..I'm the kind of person that only changes to avert a crisis..
Oh yeah..and then there's Craigslist..
1000w ballasts (3 @ $100 each)
10" vortek inline fan...$150
two complete waterfarm 8 packs ($200 each) The price just went up to $479 for new 8 packs
Secret Jardin 5x5 grow tent ..$200
that's over $2000 dollars worth of equipment that I scored (with a little running around the Bay Area and legwork) for about $1000...
Atr this point I wouldn't change the things I listed above even if I were a millionare.. (I think I would always feel stupid paying full price for grow equipment in the Bay Area)