thanks guys,,,,,,yes rose he did very well ,,,my sister and a few good friends(did not know how good they were till I needed them)they took turns taking care of him,,,,a few weeks here a few week there,,,,i think he got a little spoiled but that's ok....when I released he as there ,,,we both broke down in tears ,,,he did not understand why he was crying ,,,he had never cried tears of joy ,,,,,at that point I knew I made the right choice,,,,they gave me a choice 1 year in jail or 5 years probation ,,,supervised probation ,,,witch means 5 years of drug test(every month)check in once a month with a probee officer,,,,and at any point they can come in my house to due check ups with no warrant plus a 30$ a month maintenance fee,,,so I took the year ,,,my lawyer said he could get me out sooner ( 6 to 8 months ) and for that he only charged me 15k (S.O,B)