baked builder said:
cool thanks guys, im definately going to tell her soon! and if she really likes me which im confident she does, she will not care too much! and anyway i have a good job, great health and good outlook on life what more could she want lol! and yeah i wont tell her about any growing yet might save that one for lata LOL!
Dude, I gotta tell you man, I've seen this before and it was a nightmare.
First, if she wants to be a cop, she'll be piss tested on a continuous basis. You won't ever be able to get weed around her. Sometimes, cops have to take lie detector tests involving drug busts. If during the test, they ask: "Do you or have you ever used drugs", she'll be busted. This is a common question on those tests. If they ask her while she's hooked up, she'll flunk it for sure. Then, she might get pissed and give you up.
Secondly, a person has to believe in what they do. You'll be forcing her to be a hypocrite of the first order. How can she do her job correctly if she's lying about her home life? You'll be forcing her to be a liar.
Thirdly, there are MILLIONS of women out there. Perhaps it would be wise of you to find one that isn't striving to be a cop, narcotics agent or any other type of cop. I mean, it's just not a good idea if you're going to continue to grow MJ and smoke it.
As much as you two like each other, obviously it's not love, or you would have already been honest with her. Since it's only "Like" now, it's better if you just terminate the relationship then to do numbers 1 and 2 above.
Here's the clincher; if and when she knows you smoke and grow, AND she gets really pissed off at you one day, she might put your butt in jail. Jail for a long time or probation for years.
Is it worth it?
Personally, If I were a young man again, I'd be looking up "The New Girl". Man oh man, just looking at her avatar made me feel like I was 60 again!
AND SHE SMOKES AND GROWS!
Hey, New Girl, do you like older men? hehehe