ok this is my final decision. I will go to my next door neighbors with said plant, get the pollen, keep the leaves to bake with and kill the rest. i do a great choc and nut cookie. I may have already inadvertantly pollenated my female plant. I'm keeping a close eye on things. Funny thing happened to my mates female plant, It flowered and started to bud, On completion of its grow he had zillions of seeds, How did that happen he said, I replied well most of your mates are smokers they will have brought pollen with them. I have some of his seeds for next year. Thanx for your input.
Peace Artfan