Don't really care much for the choices, but I prefer having a medium sized eclectic group of friends (around ten), playing dice, darts or cards, while drinking beers and passing bowls, bongs, joints and blunts while occasionally discussing politics, religion, law, sports or memories all with an immense library of tunes playing in the background.
Or party it up and find a beer pong game someplace that you don't have to clean up in the mornin. In this case, best to find out where the smoking room may be and invite only a couple friends to smoke; otherwise the whole damn party wants a hit off that doob.