Hey, I am 44 and have 4 grandkids. Yes, I do smoke around them (hate me if you want to) - but joints ONLY. Absolutely NO pipes, bongs, or other apparatuses. They don't know the diff between my 'cigs' or their mom's real cigs. Those grandbabies are the lite of my life. I had 'terminal' breast cancer 4 years ago and the chemo alone damn near killed me, but since my daughter and the kiddoes live with my hubby and I, those babies gave me a reason to GET OVER MYSELF, put my feet on the floor, and help my daughter take care of them. Those kids are THE reason I draw breath today. Am I the least bit ashamed that Gammy smokes 'special cigarettes' around them? Hell no. Actually, when I smoke, it makes me even MORE attentive to their needs than usual and I am so damn happy and mellow when I smoke, it actually makes me a better grandparent. Truth....