peacock said:
Hi, A to be grandmother is concerned with her daughter in law is pregnant and smoking marijuana (the mother in law) sat and watched her daughter in law smoke 3 joints in a short time. the daughter in law also smokes cigarettes.
Does anyone know what the risks are.
Where may I find more info. on this subject.
Thanks
Hey peacock, I can tell you're going to be a good Grandma. The risks are huge when dealing with anything being introduced into an unborn person.
It's also like Russian Roulette. It may or may not affect the baby after it's birth. It may or may not affect it's development much later.
There are about a thousand things that are possible for it to do that are not good.
I did a "Google" on "Smoking Pregnancy" and got 2,160,000 results.
I did a "Google" on "Marijuana Pregnancy" and got 3,230,000 results.
I would suggest that you start with the most obvious results and work your way through them until they start sounding the same.
Then make an appointment with your family doctor for yourself, and discuss it with her/him in the Doctors office.
After that discussion, you'll be prepared to discuss it with your Daughter with information to back up what you're saying.
The primary thought should be that the baby is taking in every single thing that the Mother is. The Mother has the choice of harming herself or not, but she really doesn't have the moral right to harm the baby through apathy or intent.
Please research this and follow it up with an MD. If your Daughter is willing, (I doubt it), take her with you to the Doctors office.
Keep in mind that there may be nothing you can do. If your Daughter has made her mind up to continue what she's doing regardless of the potential for harm, then only time will tell the effects on the other person she's forcing to participate.
I wish you all the luck in the world.