Do you mean a relay? A standard HID light can draw twice its amps to fire the bulb, and you can use a relay to turn on the ballast from a different power source. Most hydro shops sell some sort of light relay, a couple of common ones are the C.A.P. High Power Relay and the MLC 4a Lighting Relay (on Amazon for $250). FWIW, its often cheaper to just get separate timers for each light and just have them turn on in sequence. Relays/contractors can be mandatory if you are firing up 2-## 1000 watt lights running on a single 240 volt circuit. I've always preferred to run multiple light setups on a 240v circuit because at start-up you draw only half the amps than when you run at 120v.
A decent grounded timer can handle 15-20amps, and a 1000 watt system pulls about 9 amps. The fire risk comes in when you try to put 2 1000 watt lights on one 15 amp circuit, or using only one 15 amp timer. Everytime the lights turn on you spike a danger amount of power, over the amp rating of the timer.
If you are talking about a timer for up to 1000 watts you are ok with a good quality 15 amp grounded timer. All timers show their amp rating - the closer you get to that limit the more dangerous it gets, especially at start-up time.