Thorn said:Hi all. Ok so this is not really related to MJ (heaven forbid!) so please don't start having a go at me or banning me as i can't deal with much more today.
I'm having a bit of a relapse into depression at the moment, but am trying to look for work, well i've been looking for work since long before i left my old job. I left that job for many reasons, but at the end of the day I had no one to talk to while i was their and was really getting down. anyway thats not the point..
I've never worked full time before, mostly because i've been studying and so have not been able to. But for the last year and a half I haven't been studying but have only been able to manage a part time job, and as soon as I started to have problems with that I began to get ill again and couldn't cope with it most of the time.
I've never really thought about incapacity benifits until my dad (who's got depression too) spoke to me about it. Now I know I cannot cope with full time work because 1 early morning alone will leave me feeling drained for about a week. Part time work will not allow me to get my own place and support myself or my pets. Now I never liked the idea of benefits cause there's nothing physically wrong with me, well apart from that I get colds and viruses a LOT when i'm low. I've always like to earn my wages and feel guilty when i'm 'given' money.
I just don't know what to do anymore. I'm starting to feel like there's no point in my life, I have no purpose or direction and never really have done as far as I can remember. I don;t quite know what I'm asking, maybe just a little advice on how I can start to stand on my own 2 feet again, or well i suppose, for the first time really.
Lastritez said:Well from my experiance after a stress breakdown a few years ago, I went through about 3 years of recovery with no light at the end of the tunnel, then I saved up enough money to buy a second hand motorbike (took me 6 months to save £700), as soon as I got the bike, life changed, the depression just seemed to vanish, there is nothing on earth like the feeling of riding a bike, lining up the bends and sweeping through them. I got a fairly big 1200cc sports tourer, and it always puts a smile on my face, even in the rain, hopefully off to europe this year to visit some friends and tour some mountains.
All I can say is buying that bike changed my life, for the better, I would always recomend a getting a bike to ease stress and for fun days out. Riding IS the pleasure, when I had a car I never went out just for a drive to enjoy driving, but I am out as much as I can on the bike, no where to go, just sweeping my way around the local country roads, mind you, I can't wait to head up to Scotland and try the highland roads.
Get a bike, find freedom, give stress and depression a leather clad kick up the butt, and spend all your time grinning like an idiot!
as soon as I got the bike, life changed, the depression just seemed to vanish
The Effen Gee said:...or move to california and legally grow pot for a living.
tcbud said:I have heard of studies that say if you smile your mood will change, You can not frown and smile at the same time. I have tried it in times of trouble, forcing myself to smile, and it seemed to work for me.
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